You're a human being with brains and limbs and capabilities- now use those capabilities and quit moaning all the time about not being able to find true love. This ain't Twatlight, true love doesn't fall out of the sky in the form of a good-looking, smart, well-mannered boy who knows exactly how you feel.
How many times have I witnessed my friends fall to pieces because of males and their stupidity? Guys are, in general, CLUELESS at this stage of life. So why wait around for that boy who's just not worth your attention? You've got loads of time to look for boys. On the other hand, you've only got five years to take everything that you can out of secondary school- why not divert your energy towards that path? :) No hard feelings. GIRL POWER!
I know the typical response to this will be "Pft, that's easy for HER to say; she DOES have a good-looking, smart, well-mannered boy who knows exactly how she feels." but, mm, let's just say that F and myself have never let our relationship stand in the way of our school lives. We never let the fact that we struck lucky at Form 1 be an excuse to slack in our grades or not strive to achieve excellence in all our koko activities. I mean, finding love and all that is very well but a college CV ain't going to write itself, okay! xD So go go go, and work work work. Think about broken hearts and finding your soulmate later, LOL.
Kalau jumpa, jumpa la. It's part of human nature to experiment, test out the waters. If you really think he'll treat you right (just because you're young, doesn't mean boys have the right to treat you like crap!), then go for it la. But if it doesn't work out? Move along, move along, like I know you can. :)
# this has been a community service message from Alia Astaman #
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